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Q : My baby won't sleep unless they are on me. Am I creating a bad habit?

A: Baby has been used to being so close to you, they crave warmth & your heartbeat. The idea of 'spoiling' your child is becoming outdated and habit's can be built or changed later

Q : My toddler will only eat beige food, or snack. Help.

A: It's totally normal. Keep offering without pressure. One day they'll steal food off your plate and you'll wonder who this child is.

Q : My kids keep having meltdowns after school every day. What's going on?

A: Take it as a positive, they are holding it in and together all day at school. They come home and finally feel safe enough to fall apart.

Q : I always said I wouldn't be a screen parent. I find myself using them more and more to get through the day. Am I a bad parent?

A: Unfortunately, it is now a reality that we have to face, screens can't be avoided forever. Balance matters, not perfection.

Q : I envy parent's that have easy kids, or have it easier. Is that awful?

A: It's human. Just remember not everything you see is what is happening. You are only witnessing a snippet or watching a highlight of that day. Not the 3, 4, 5am wake ups or the 200 tantrums they have had to leave the house.

Q : My child's started to lie about small things. Is this the start of a bigger problem ?

A: It's often about avoiding disappointment, not bad character. Focus on safety to tell the truth, not punishment.

Q : My toddler has started biting/hiting. What am I doing wrong? 

A: Firstly, you're doing nothing wrong. It's a lot more common than you think. They are dealing with a lot, teething, new emotions, changes in routine, and so much more you don't even think about. Concentrate on keeping calming, redirecting and being consistent. 

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